#NP Corporate Thuggin (USDA)
Well obviously based on the title, this post is about "SMASHING THE HOMIES"....
Personally, I dont see anything wrong with it nor do i make a big deal about it when i hear about it....depending on the scenerio....
1. Why are you trippin if you're NOT fuckin or fuckin with her/him anymore?
2. Smashing the homie is different from smashing some1 "u just know".
3. If she/he didnt cheat on you by SMASHING THE HOMIE, whats the problem?
Lately, the concept SMASHING THE HOMIE has been coming up over and over and over again. A friend of mine, she-who-must-not-be-named.....came to me a few weeks ago with what i call some bullshit from the next nigga...he was mad @ her because she fucked "someone he knew"....like #cmonson really...NOBODY GIVES A FUCK.
WHO someone fucks is their business.
I think the better question and more relevant question is: Do you have any diseases? Why are people so quick to judge the next motherfucka based on what and how many people they've fucked? Since when is it anyone elses business.
#MIAHSADVICE tell them to kiss your ass, because you dont owe them shit, especially an explanation of your sexual partner history. If they cant look past your past, and accept you for the person you are NOW and TODAY, they are NOT the one for you.
I WILL SAY....if he/she is SMASHING A HOMIE WHILE YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP...THAT IS CALLED CHEATING AND I DEFINITELY DO NOT PROMOTE CHEATING. (IF YOU'RE GOING TO CHEAT, U MGHT AS WELL BREAK UP, SO HEARTS DONT GET BROKEN, TO THE POINT OF NO REPAIR)
now if you're NOT EXCLUSIVELY together..STOP GETTING BUTTHURT about it, because in the end... THEY WERENT YOURS AND YOU WERENT THEIRS! sooo, who are you to judge them?
IM FROM OAKLAND, CA n oakland is small as fuck, guaranteed ive probably smashed a homie or two, not even knowing they asses were friends, but hey i admit da shit...its n the fucking past, now move the fuck on.
THE HORRIBLE DOUBLE STANDARD::: if a dude does it, ITS GOOD...if a female does it ITS BAD. Im tired of hearing that if you SMASH A HOMIE your automatically a HOE...that is a fucking MYTH..Dudes get a pat on the back, if they fuck sisters, cousins, mamas, and aunties...females get tagged with "dat bitch a hoe", "dont fuck wit her", "she smashed the homie"-->now she's tainted for life. Fact is, a lot of guys start having sex wayyyy before a lot of women do, which opens the doors for men to have sex with wayyyy more sexual partners than women. A man can have sex with 20+ woman, while a woman is only limited to 5 or less, and now she has to pick and choose who she fucks in hopes that she wont OFFEND the man she's about to enter into a relationship with?? WHAT TYPE OF SHIT IS THAT?
Like i previously stated, WHO you fuck is your business. if you're fucking someone, make sure the person you're fucking nowadays is mentally mature. People get to runnin their mouths, and thats when the situation gets outta hand....if people would keep their fucking mouths shout, SMASHING the HOMIE would never exist, because NOBODY but you and the person you're fucking would know.. (MESSAGE!!)
Nevertheless, if people would stop trippin off what the next person thought/felt about them the SMASHING THE HOMIE epidemic among the URBAN WORLD would die the fuck out, and everyone would be having great mind-blowing sex....
Furthermore...what's wrong with having great, no strings attached sex?.....until next time...